Departure(s)

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I have 90 spam messages in my email inbox. (one inbox, anyway). I have a pile of clean laundry to put away. A basket of dirty laundry to wash. I had pizza for dinner… after 10PM. There are several more things on my list to do, “today”, but I wanted to write you. I haven’t spent much time thinking about what to write, or how to come across, so I hope it all comes out alright.

Those of you who got the MySpace bulletins, messages, IMs, emails, phone calls, text messages, voice mails, and carrier pigeons have all heard the truth. At least part of it. Hopefully nobody’s making stuff up or adding to the story.

Yes, “Pastor Kevin”, as we all know him, officially announced his resignation.

I didn’t. Laura didn’t. I know at least 15 other people that didn’t. And therefore I know at least 15 other people that will be extremely sad not to see you if you suddenly stop showing up. You’ve probably already heard the “hang in there, now is when we need you most” speeches (if you haven’t, I’m sorry… call me, I’ll give you one for free).

I just want to encourage you to be the next best thing. We’re not going away, so I hope you don’t either. Yes, there will be shifting. It’s kind of like an earthquake just happened. Lots of things have moved around, and you might be a bit dizzy – but it’s all still there.

Someone wondered out loud about how many people would be leaving. Who else is leaving? Are you? The only reason people will start leaving is if everyone’s walking around all “ho-hum” and gloomy, and sad, and depressed, etc. Those kinds of attitudes will make people not want to show up. I wouldn’t want to come either if it sounded like no fun.

So persevere. “Hang in there”. It’s not easy. And yeah, you’re probably sad/mad/confused/careless/depressed/angry… And I bet you know someone else who feels the same way you do. In that case, I think you should give them a phone call or some such, and make sure they know that you’re there for them, and that you’re their friend.

The “leaders” will change a bit. The group will change. There will be new people. There will be the people that have always been there. Things will change. They will only change, though, based on what “the group” does. You’re part of that group, and the things you do, the things you decide, will decide what your little slice of the group does.

My slice of the group is going to be there, waiting for you to make it awesome.

If you don’t know what the heck I’m talking about, or if you have any questions, you should know that you can call and ask/tell me all about it.

If you don’t have my number, call the Church and ask for it. The Church’s number is 901-873-3000.

The End.

[PS: If you happen to be a future employer of mine - firstly "hello" - feel free to ask me about the content of this note. It was personal in nature, as normally only those that already know me ever check on this site.]

5 Responses to “Departure(s)”

  1. Becca! June 29, 2007 at 12:35 pm #

    very well put.

    so well put, that i reposted it… :-)

    very much needed and very encouraging.

    thank yoooou.

  2. Becca! June 29, 2007 at 12:45 pm #

    dude, i left a comment. where did it go?

  3. Becca! June 29, 2007 at 12:45 pm #

    ooo, these aren’t being shown. got it!

    =)

    lol, becca is slow.

  4. Becca! July 1, 2007 at 3:25 pm #

    heyyy!

    i’ve left like 3 comments in here alrready but anyways!

    umm… your main page is gramatically incorrect? i didn’t know if it was on purpose or not, probably was!

    but anyways!

    love the pic!
    is that you???
    no way!
    awww!

    loves.

  5. Becca! July 1, 2007 at 3:27 pm #

    dude, i so left three comments in here the other day about the actual blog… it said that it warranted reposting so i put it on my myspace blog and a bulletin, just as the house myspace did…

    oh well…

    but yeah, it also said thank you for the encouragement, we really need it right now!

    something like that.

    mucho love-o!
    much amor!